So you want to propose? Here’s what you need to know.

Your Guide to Proposing in Seattle

Alright, so you found the girl of your dreams and bought the perfect ring for her--what’s next?

Planning a proposal can feel overwhelming, but with the right steps and a little help, you can create a moment that leaves her speechless and teary-eyed.

Recruit some help

To instantly lower your heartrate, consider hiring a planner. They’ve orchestrated countless proposals and can take a huge load off your shoulders on the day of. Your planner can also help you find a skilled photographer to capture every moment. Don't forget to enlist a close friend of hers as your ally--someone to ensure she has a fresh manicure, a subtle but essential detail.

Set Up by Picnic Party Seattle

Photos by Lumiere Photography

Location

Next, select a location that holds significance for your relationship. Think of your first date, special moments the two of you have shared, or perhaps you two have a place you consider to be “your spot”. Whatever it is, make sure it sets the stage for a romantic moment. If you need more inspiration, your planner can suggest romantic venues.

Personalize the experience

While you’re still in the planning process, be sure to incorporate some personal touches into the setup to ensure she feels cherished and adored. Include her favorite flower, some snacks she loves, and some pictures of memorable moments you've shared. If you have a special song, let your planner know so it can play during the proposal.

Set Up by Picnic Party Seattle (Luxe Picnic for Two Package)

Photos by Ray Lee Photos

The big day

On the day of, craft a believable cover story to keep the surprise intact. Whether it's a faux work event or a supposed photoshoot, ensure its convincing enough to keep her unsuspecting but dressed appropriately. Make sure that your partner doesn’t have access to your phone throughout the day, so you and your planner can be discrete with your communication.

Before you arrive at the proposal spot, finalize details like your approach angle for optimal photography and finding a secure yet accessible spot for the ring. And remember, timing is key—you may need to stall your intended to prevent spoiling the setup.

Once you get there

When you reach the setup, take a moment to let everything sink in. No need to rush, take your time and enjoy it, this is once-in-a-lifetime! Take her hand and say some loving words you’ve prepared beforehand. Then, get down on one knee (this is worth practicing beforehand, trust us), get out the ring, ask her to marry you, and hope she says yes! Once she has, enjoy a brief photoshoot with your photographer capturing this once in a lifetime moment.

Final Words

Congratulations! Cherish this pivotal moment in your relationship. Whether you remember every detail, or it becomes a blissful blur, it marks the beginning of your journey together.

Cheers & Good Luck!

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Photos by Lindsey Baatz Photography